Don’t Be An Idiot, Woman!

This is insane.

Thinking about this person is insane enough, and writing about it in my blog… is like double insanity. What were you thinking, Byq? Should I revive this old topic of Byq What Were You Thinking? I thought it would only happen when I was young and stupid… not when I am old… and still stupid apparently.

So let’s blame this game Tribalwars.

I blame it for taking over my time. Taking over my academic life. Taking over my social life. Introducing me to many great people. Making some friends for me. And… Bringing this particular person into my life.

Which is absurd.

Now, sit down and listen to me, Byq! Listen to me very carefully, because I only tell you these once, and once only. If you did something stupid because you don’t listen to me, you’d be dead, Byq. I am going to tell you why this is absurd.

1. This is absurd because you don’t want a long distance relationship

2. This is absurd because HE IS FUCKIN SEVEN YEARS YOUNGER THAN YOU

3. This is absurd because YOU DON’T EVEN KNOW IF HE’S INTO A RELATIONSHIP

4. WHAT THE FUK with this non relationship priority in your life?

You’re screwing with your life, Byq. Now use your head and listen to me. This is not gonna work. You can go there and have fun, but this is not gonna work and it would end really bad. Now I am telling you this, and let’s see what you’re gonna post in 3 months from now.

I warned you.

And I mean it.

Don’t play with the fire, Byq!

So You’re Friendzoned?

Well, just because I don’t have anything to tell you about my life, doesn’t mean I don’t have anything at all, right? (I am so sorry for the double negation, I will try not use too many of it :D ) So, I might just tell you my friend’s story.

Anyway, since she didn’t say that I need to keep this as a secret I will feel free to spread this story. LOL. Don’t worry, I will keep the names anonymous to avoid lawsuit.

Let’s say this guy likes my friend. Well, it was pretty obvious from the first time I met him. I don’t understand how his background shaped his personality, but he always tried to convince everybody that he never interested to my friend, and always said that they’re only friends. Well… Looks like he wanted to friendzone my friend. Of course my friend liked it!

Come on… a guy offered himself to be in the friendzone? What kind of sorcery was that?

It doesn’t last long though… The friendship became awkward, and the conversation led to serious talks. However just like the movie, my friend missed the first sign of bad news, so it became bad. Or, I should say… really bad.

The guy decided not to talk to her. Totally ignore her. Be very cold to her. Which for me is very funny and at the same time, childish. Why? Sulking because the girl that you like doesn’t want to go to the next step? Sulking because you don’t get what you want? Feeling angry, dejected, and decided to take the drastic decision to cut off the relationship is not a good way to get away from your friendzone, dude…

Just because Barney Stinson made a theory about friendzone, and there are some testimonies from some guys that it worked, it doesn’t mean that it works all the time. You know? Maybe there are more who tried and fail and never mentioned it because it sounds too desperate taking advice from a character from a sitcom.

From what I saw, many guys who cut off relationship after being friendzoned, gave the assurance the girls needed, that they’d better be friends forever.

One of my friend told me, “I am not afraid being friendzoned. In fact, look at me, if I never got into the friend zone there’s no chance a girl would know my true self, my true personality. She might not see it in the beginning, but for me friend zone is the way I get into her zone to begin with.”

I believe that many won’t agree with this. Most guys won’t, I think. I am not encouraging people to remain silent being in a friendzone of a love one. DO something! Take risk! We girls like those with confidence and pride, not those who sulk and run from the battle before it even begun. You guys always said that girls with confident are sexy, let me tell you: we also think the same about you.

So… You got friendzoned?

A Little Update

To be honest I don’t really know what to say.

I got my blog back but I just don’t know what to write here. It might be the fifth time since I updated my blog, I found myself staring at the blank page wondering what I should write. What I should tell you.

Yes. So many things happened, during the days when I wasn’t able to access my blog, and yes some of them might be fun to be posted here. But I just don’t know where to start. Those days are just gone!

Maybe that’s why I need my blog. I need something that can record my life in a timeline. A detailed one. Sometimes I just need to look back on my blog to remember what happened at that moment and that’s enough. That’s why I was so broken hearted when google deleted my blog. And so panic when the hacker took over this blog earlier. I just want to preserve some memories I thought might be worth preserving.

And lately, when I found out it is hard to write. It doesn’t mean I started to feel that my life become less and less interesting. It doesn’t mean that I think less as well. But I think because of the hacking it started to changed my feeling a little,

I started to think something like, how if the blog is gone? When you tried to preserve your life and someone just steal it from you? Or ruin whatever you think is priceless.

Sorry I blabber… Just not the right time to write anything actually.

London Calling

I should have posted it couple of weeks ago, but I hope it is still fine to post this now.

So, yes I went to London again.

However, it was a daytrip I planned to met AK who came to UK for her Christmas and New Year Holiday. I think it was not like what we had in mind, but it was nevertheless awesome. The problem was just because we didn’t have enough time and museum closed at 6 pm. So, yeah…

I went very early from Norwich (as usual) taking the earliest bus. Of course I slept on the way there and woke up with sore neck. I think I need to buy this neck pillow so at least I would be fine if I had to have a long journey. I can’t imagine going to Aberdeen for 13 hours on the train without proper sleep.

It is not so hard to find the hotel where AK stayed in London, because you can always ask the police officer. Seriously. No matter how scary they look, police officer won’t show you the wrong direction, unless they really don’t understand where you’re going. Or unless they arrest you.

So I met AK and her mother. And the first comment she made after we were alone was, “your hair….”

Seriously? AK? Seriously?

We planned to watch Wicked the musical in Victoria. Argh… the timing wasn’t really good, you know. Probably we’re really bad at planning. It’s good that none of us are working for the Tour and Travel agency because I think we suck at it. However, it reminds me that I still need to pay 10 pounds to her for the ticket! Please someone remind me to buy that goddamn amazon voucher so I don’t have to live with debt. I think all these unfortunate events are the result of unpaid debt -__-” (yeah… sure…)

How was Wicked?

LOL IT WAS WICKED!

I think AK also had the same in her mind that it was… well… I can’t find a better word than wonderful (I think she might have better vocabulary, she’s like a walking dictionary). I was thinking of making this going out watching musical as a regular activity, but when I think about it… the ticket price was so expensive, and I haven’t mention the bus ticket from Norwich to London. I think being able to watch it occasionally would make me very happy.

We also went to the Natural History Museum (or something like that) and yes it was crazy. It’s huge and there are so many stones. LOL. I love stones. I have this kind of kinky interest towards stones since I was very young, so it was like heaven for me to be there. I don’t think AK enjoyed it as much as I do though :p Sorry AK, but you chose this museum :p

Anyway, I think I managed to convince AK to study here. I mean, I know she hates studying and it was like an ultimate freedom for her to leave our beloved university. But I think it was my persuasion skill that made her think that she can stand one more thesis before she leave the academic world forever. Yes, by the beauty of the UK.

I am not sure though if I would still be here when she came lol, but yay, I like it when I can make someone do what I want them to do :D

The Blog Goes On

Yes, now I can update my blog.

Although I put the “Keep Calm” poster, no I wasn’t calm at all. I was so freaked out when I knew SuperByq was hacked. Questions arose in my mind. Did I offend anyone from entries that I posted before? Did I install some nasty widgets or plugins in my blog which was a way for these hacker to get in? Or, was it because I just simply popular? (narcissism dies hard)

I tried to contact people close to me to help. Of course in that panic situation, links of FAQ and how-to tutorial that Momo sent me wasn’t quite helpful because I was too panic to read anything. The others who said they care didn’t try to offer any help (so now I know who really cares). The one who wanted to help know nothing about blog (but I seriously appreciate their good intention). And I remembered someone that might know about this stuff, I asked McXoem if he could help (because he has self hosted blog, just like me, I assume he’s aware of this kind of stuff).

This blogger ngalam was AWESOME. Of course I gave him my password because that’s the way he fixed my entire blog, he’s a blogger not a hacker remember? It only took one day, or a little bit more, for him to turn my defaced un-backed-up blog to normal. Well, not normal at first but renovation was one of my 2012 resolution anyway, so I hope you like this new Superbyq look. I tried a cleaner look this time, however narcissism struck when I did it.

I want to thank you for the readers that mailed, BBM-ed, tweeted and left comments about the whole situation. Especially, Soe, Divardha, Thi, AK, Momo, and Fajar. It meant so much for me.

I know that it took me so long to come back and it was a torture for me. At least from this incident I know how important this blog for me. It’s nice to be back :)